Dating & Marriage

Find out who you shouldn't marry

Dating Radar

Bait & Switch

By Megan Hunter

Some romantic relationships simply go sour. This book is not for them. Instead, it is for people stuck in high-conflict relationships. This is the relationship with a tantalizing beginning complete with charm, fun, ease, sensuality, and sexiness, that abruptly turns into one of confusion, dread, despair, and even violence. There is no good exit strategy or staying strategy.

In sales terminology, this type of relationship would be considered bait and switch.

People with high-conflict personalities (HCPs) have a different operating system in romantic relationships. They unwittingly crave and work hard to be in one, but sabotage it. Some may have a form of Borderline Personality Disorder. The other partner enters into the relationship because it is the best, but eventually lands in lengthy and expensive battles over anything and everything.

In this first-of-its-kind book, Megan Hunter addresses the patterns and thoughts from both sides without placing blame or casting judgment. Based on hundreds of interviews with people in high-conflict relationships, seeing the destruction of families in her policy work in family law, and feedback from lawyers, psychologists, and mediators who work with these couples, it is an inside look at "his" thoughts and "her" thoughts, their unconscious interactions, and step-by-step staying or exiting strategies.


My Dating Revolution

 

The most difficult relationships, what we call "complicated relationships" are confusing and feel chaotic and out-of-control. It's time for your Conflict Revolution!

Relationship expert, Megan Hunter, author of Bait & Switch: Saving Your Relationship After Incredible Romance Turns Into Exhausting Chaos, provides coaching sessions to help individuals and couples decrease the chaos and stabilize their lives and relationships.  

For any type of conflict: love life, workplace, family, neighborhood, anywhere.

Fee: $120 for one 90-minute session (can be divided into two of three sessions totaling 90 minutes.