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Wellness Benjamin Garber PhD Wellness Benjamin Garber PhD

How Much Anxiety is Too Much?

We all have some. Anxiety is the low-level, background tension that interrupts sleep at the smell of smoke or the sound of a baby crying. It’s the almost-unnoticed pressure that sparks a yelp! when something startles you.

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Wellness Benjamin Garber PhD Wellness Benjamin Garber PhD

Self-Care is Key When Managing Anxiety in the Family

Everyone has anxiety. It’s the pressure that fills the balloon. It’s the tension that keeps us alert and reactive, aware and engaged. But like the air that fills that balloon, anxiety can become too much, the pressure too high, to the point that all it takes is a pin-prick to explode. Here are three rules to help let the air out of the balloon.

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Wellness Benjamin Garber PhD Wellness Benjamin Garber PhD

The COVID-19 Situation is Definitely a Lemons-Lemonade Situation

I’d be glad to fill your head with silver-lining ideas about how a virus spreading across the globe is killing hundreds of thousands, destroying economies, forcing incalculable debt upon our children and their children, fueling racism, and locking down borders is a good opportunity for family time. But let’s not talk about those things. Let’s talk about your kids.

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Wellness Amanda L. Smith Wellness Amanda L. Smith

99 Things to Do When You Are Feeling Depressed

A major depressive episode can be exhausting and deeply discouraging for individuals who are already coping with a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder or self-injurious behaviors. Here are some ideas you may want to consider while you’re coping with depression.

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High Conflict, Trauma & Emotions, Wellness Guest Author High Conflict, Trauma & Emotions, Wellness Guest Author

The Beast

Living with Borderline Personality Disorder is painful. We are consumed daily with the most intense and unstable emotions, self-loathing and distorted thinking. Our thoughts and our feelings are completely invisible to the outside world, thus making it difficult for outsiders to understand that our behaviors are simply a manifestation of what is going on internally.

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Wellness Melanie Lane MD Wellness Melanie Lane MD

Nap On You Crazy Diamond

One of my guiltiest pleasures is napping.  I tell myself that my napping habit is reprehensible for a number of reasons. Time spent napping could be spent cleaning house, exercising, studying, or writing a blog.  All of these statements are true, but you know what else? Napping can be really good for you.

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