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Don’t Be Tricked by the Traditional Family Law System into Making a Bad Deal!
In business planning, a boss or committee in the business, will develop a Strategic Intention for the business, a Value Proposition and Standards by which to measure the success of the business.
Can High-Conflict People Change?
Can High-Conflict People Change? This is an increasingly important question in many areas of modern life. One test is to see whether they can learn new ways of dealing with their behavior in a short-term structure.
Understanding Divorce Conflict: The Myths of Divorce
This is another article in the series of articles that focus on divorce conflict, a problem in search of a solution. In order to solve as complex a problem as divorce conflict, we need to fully understand the factors undergirding it
Have Goal Based Standards for Success!
The traditional family law system lacks a customer focused strategic intent and value proposition that helps divorcing parties develop a plan for reaching long term family and financial goals. Therefore, parties and their attorneys must focus on developing such a plan in negotiations, by cooperating.
Understanding Divorce Conflict: Do the Math!
Most professionals involved with divorcing parties, especially attorneys and judges, see how destructive conflict in divorce is to the parties, to the children of divorce and to the parenting relationship. To understand divorce conflict fully would fill a book, but your authors plan to address the topic in bitesize pieces. This is a piece.
Who Are High Conflict People?
High-conflict people (HCPs) have a pattern of high-conflict behavior that increases conflict rather than reducing or resolving it. This pattern usually happens over and over again in many different situations with many different people.
Narcissist in Your Family? 4 Tips for Dealing with Them
This article gives some suggestions for how you can deal with Narcissists without getting stuck in the mud or disliking yourself.
Happy Baby!
Most people who divorce would like their children to be happy […] Studies of separated parents who have children who had successful long-term outcomes identify five basic patterns that lead to that success.
Narcissists, Sociopaths: Similarities, Differences, Dangers
According to a major study stated that almost 10% of the U.S. has either narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) or antisocial personality disorder (another term for sociopath). Many of these individuals have…
Unhooked Author Dr. Ben Garber Warns Parents: Isolation is the path to depression in children
Dr. Garber recently discussed the topic of depression, as October is “National Depression Education Month” in an article in the Nashua Telegraph. Dr. Garber explains people with depression might not be merely sad, but can feel irritable, distracted, anxious or exhausted…
BIFF: 4 Ways to Respond to Hostile Comments Get respect with responses that are Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm.
Hostile comments can show up anywhere. Should you ignore them? React in the same hostile tone? Or is there a better way? A BIFF Response® is a way to respond that usually puts a stop to the hostilities, while leaving you feeling good about yourself.
With New School Year, Reset Your Children’s Routines
Parenting is about rhythm. Sure, it helps if you can sing and dance. But parenting is about the rhythms of eating and sleeping and toileting.[…] Our job as healthy parents is to slowly and gradually help our children fit in to these rhythms