A collection of books on parenting, psychology, relationships, and family therapy, arranged in a grid pattern. Titles include 'The Healthy Parent's A-B-Cs,' 'Borderline Personality Disorder,' 'Courage to Feel,' 'Winning Strategies in Divorce,' 'Mending Fences,' and 'Sex Trafficking Prevention.'
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BIFF Conflict Communication
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Our authors come from all walks of life with a shared goal of helping people transform their lives.
Our work is guided by Christian values of hope, healing, and transformation.
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Maybe you want to learn conflict communication skills.
You’ll love our Conflict Communication Series.
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Maybe personality study is fascinating to you.
You’ll love reading books in our high-conflict personality and crime sections.
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Maybe you want to be a better parent/co-parent.
You’ll love our parenting books and co-parenting books.
LATEST BOOKS
The Definitive Guide for Divorced or Separated Parents
By attorneys and parenting coordinators, Annette T. Burns, JD and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner, JD
Publication Date: December 2024
Your Guide to Difficult CoParent Texts, Emails and Social Media Posts
Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., Annette T. Burns, JD, and Kevin Chafin, LPC
Your Guide to Difficult Workplace Communication
Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq.
Megan Hunter, MBA
A Practical Guide to the Power and Freedom of Emotional Honesty
Andrew Seubert, LMHC, NCC
TOP SELLERS
A Collaborative, Cognitive-Behavioral Reunification Protocol Serving the Best Interests of the Post-Divorce, Polarized Child
Author: Benjamin D. Garber, PhD
Foreword by: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq.
Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns
Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq.
Your Guide to Difficult CoParent Texts, Emails and Social Media Posts
Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., Annette T. Burns, JD, and Kevin Chafin, LPC
Contrary to popular belief, BPD is not a life sentence. This book gives you the information and tools to reclaim your life.
Shehrina Rooney
Unhooked Books publishes unique and distinctive books that cover a range of topics relating to relationships such as high conflict personalities, personality disorders, parenting, divorce & coparenting, wellness, dating, and more.
Our Most Read Articles
How to get off the emotional roller coaster and understand triggers and resulting response patterns so you can reclaim your life. Megan Hunter and Andrea LaRochelle discuss The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Survival Guide
Can High-Conflict People Change? This is an increasingly important question in many areas of modern life. One test is to see whether they can learn new ways of dealing with their behavior in a short-term structure.
Hostile comments can show up anywhere. Should you ignore them? React in the same hostile tone? Or is there a better way? A BIFF Response® is a way to respond that usually puts a stop to the hostilities, while leaving you feeling good about yourself.
Narcissists can be very difficult to be around, so be aware of what you’re facing. Whether you’re dating, making friends, looking for a job, hiring employees, or joining a club or organization, it can be helpful to know some of the warning signs for people with narcissistic personality disorder or significant traits.
Is someone verbally attacking you at work, at home or in your community? Telling you that you’re a loser, saying "It's all your fault," publicly humiliating you, spreading false rumors about you or claiming credit for your hard work? Such people are often narcissists who are also high-conflict people (HCPs).
Whether you're in a dispute with your brother, classmate, work colleague, spouse or even someone you don't know, conflict is stressful. We talk about healthy and unhealthy conflict, and yes, some conflict is healthy, but conflict is always a distraction from work, life, family and other important things we all have to do.
If You Change the Rules (and the Outcomes), You Can Change the Game: This is the Lesson Learned in Waldron and Koritzinsky’s Game Theory and the Transformation of Family Law.
While it’s shocking and probably embarrassing when your child bites, it’s not unusual behavior for young kids. You help the child by stating how he might feel, and providing him with the solutions that he cannot find on his own. Awareness provides the opportunity to make a different choice next time.
Setting Limits AND Imposing Consequences in 2 ½ Steps
Authors: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Ekaterina Ricci, MDR, MLS
Publication date: December 9, 2025
Series: Conflict Communication Book 6
Description
In a world filled with conflict, manipulation, and boundary-pushing behavior, SLIC Solutions for Conflict offers a calm and practical guide for addressing high-conflict behavior.
Drawing on decades of experience with high-conflict personalities, Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., and Ekaterina Ricci, MDR, MLS, present the 2½-step SLIC Solutions™ method: Setting Limits and Imposing Consequences. This approach helps you respond with confidence—replacing passive tolerance or reactive aggression with firm, respectful boundaries.
Whether you’re dealing with narcissists, workplace bullies, difficult relatives, or escalating community tensions, SLIC Solutions equips you with the tools to be assertive without being aggressive, to protect your peace, and to strengthen the social fabric around you. With calm authority, it empowers readers to become more confident limit-setters—helping make families, organizations, and communities safer and more respectful places for all.
You’ll learn five key questions to help ensure your consequences are realistic and effective. With real-world examples from families, workplaces, courtrooms, and communities, this book provides actionable strategies to regain control in even the most challenging situations.
SLIC Solutions™ is the fourth core method in the internationally respected CARS Method® of conflict resolution—alongside Connecting (EAR Statements™), Analyzing options, and Responding (BIFF Response®). With clarity and compassion, this book shows how to communicate boundaries, follow through, and preserve relationships—without falling into manipulation traps.
SLIC Solutions is often the most important skill. High conflict people tend to be the people who can’t stop themselves from offensive or harmful behavior, so others need to stop them. This technique can be used with anyone in your life and can be learned at almost any age.
Assert without aggression. Protect your peace. Strengthen your community.